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If you've dated a shemale who you particularly like, go ahead and date her. If you don't meet the right person, move on to the next date. When in doubt, move on. Until you feel like something has convinced you that this person is not for you. Remember that the kindness of love does not extend to spending time with people who make you uncomfortable. Keep shemale dating until you have a clear answer in mind.
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Wanting to relive a past relationship is completely different from feeling that there will always be someone better out there. If you choose the latter, that implies a character flaw that can be corrected.